GIVING ALL YOU GOT (100%)

It doesn’t matter what the subject or activity is, when you see your fellow human giving all they got, you know it to be true and it is something to behold. For sports fan, you see this in the play-offs. It also shows itself in the Olympic games where like minded disciplined people show and share their training and results…

THEY PLAY VERY WELL

You also see this in little children too. You see, they don’t think or have considerations like adults do so often they are in the mode of doing all they can whatever it is naturally. Of course they gravitate toward fun and silliness but they still put forth all their efforts naturally

DRUDGERY?

In public service, of which you run into almost daily, you can see where people have given up and are just making minimum efforts to get through the day. They let what they do get to them and wear them down making what they do a burden instead of a delight.

JOHN OR JANE DOE RANDOM

When I see a house cleaner, a handyman, mother, professional, bus driver or customer service representative going the distance using all they have and no attitude is present, then you see the principal of all you have being brought to bare, live and in action. It promotes itself without effort

ALL IN?

It motivates, humbles and causes the one observing that person operating at their capacity to take note of their own dynamics and assess them for performance and realness. If one is alert and aware and sees another going all out naturally, it automatically takes affect for the better. An exchange takes place

MOTIVATION AND EXHORTATION

The best one word to describe it would be HOPE. It gives the one who is stuck in the land of HUM-DRUM, repetition and dullness, or weary and burdened, saddened or surrendered a sort of lift to see another making the best innocent effort at whatever the task is…To rise instead of sulk? Yes to this

YOUR MESSAGE HAS BEEN RECEIVED

When someone gives all they got…well they are not able to give anymore. It has nothing to do with winning or losing, being better or quantity dimensions either. You GAVE what you had and somehow the Universe, in all its wisdom and mystery takes note…What is recorded? What can be said of this?

SENT

What was given…is being given back. It is in use and that is how you thank the one who gave it to you

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BEING MOVED TO TEARS (tear talk)

Should this happen to you, support it for sometimes those tears have to come out and do the talking. When words fail, emotions overwhelm and circumstances present themselves that are not mainstream, then we need to communicate another way. I call it heart-speak and it can lead you to places you wouldn’t ordinarily go or visit with. In the realm of heart-speak, much is said without saying

LET IT HAVE ITS WAY

Don’t repress or dismiss either. Here is chance to visit with a part of yourself that is deep within you, past intellect, opinion and thoughts even exceeding feelings that can communicate effectively without sound or words not only to yourself but to others too. Let it take place. Let it have its way

TEAR TALKING

I have had tears of sadness for different reasons and by different causes. Some were of my own doing and for my benefit or occasion and sometimes I was moved at someones else situation or circumstances. I never planned any of it and they come when they come and stay as long as they like

MANY PARTS TO A PERSON

I have also had tears of joy which I found fascinating. We usually identify tears with something wrong so to many it can be a first time experience that defies explanation while making itself known. To be able to visit with an inner place of peace so satisfying that it celebrates with tears? Fascinating holds

THE GRACE OF A FELLOW HUMAN

I have seen people in public crying off to themselves with dignity letting whatever is happening have its way with them and I am always moved to take note. Sometimes I inquire to make sure that if there is something I can do…I will do and other times I sense all is well enough and let people be.

THIS WAS UNPLANNED

I remember when my father died decades ago, for a period of three weeks, I would be flooded by random memories that would just come and go and they would bring an eruption of tears having no respect for where I was or what I was doing. It would come out of no where and I would have to excuse myself until it passed.

OH…HERE WE GO

A flood of tears just pouring down from my eyes, over my cheeks, past my mouth and landing near the chin until I could get my sleeve or handkerchief to help out. During this time, I would be in a state of observation, wonderment and peace as this all ran its course. It was over when it was over

KIDS CRYING

With children, tears talk more than with adults at times. Kids use that outlet to share what they are feeling, to make a point or to express themselves. It has such an impact that you cannot help but take note. If it is caused for a good reason, then let them cry it out. If it is from a boo-boo, who isn’t move along with them?

CRYING BUT WHY?

I had a friends little 4 year old girl who called me grandpa (not related) come running to me at a birthday party crying while trying to tell me that the other kids were calling her names. She got my full attention while I held her and brushed her hair and wiped her face and I asked her in “kid” talk…What did the other kids say? Tell Grandpa….

TAKE YOUR TURN

Between gasps of breath with intermittent weeps, she said…They (other kids) called me slow-poke. I couldn’t help myself and let out a laugh and quickly caught it. You see they were taking turns on a water slide and you had to climb a ladder to the top and then slide. She went slow so she wouldn’t fall. I told her to tell them….using “kid talk”…its my turn and then just do your turn and don’t listen to them

GRANDPA SAID

With tears almost gone, I said, can you do that? With her little head nodding up and down, with a parting hug and a final…sure you can from me, she ran off to take her turn telling everyone in line that grandpa said it was my turn…NOTE: She had no dad and I was filling in. I had my own tears from that and let them tell me…well done grandpa as I watched and waited for them to subside

Teary eyes and life in motion…somethings defy explanation but demand respect never the less…TEARS

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WE FORGET THE POWER WE HAVE

Lets start with your word. This can accomplish great feats, motivate people, create, destroy and cause movement that leads to action or inaction. Stop and ponder this. I meet people all-day who completely misuse and disrespect their own word that comes out of their mouth. I come from the point of view that I believe a person until I have a reason not to believe that person. The persons word controls that outcome

I DON’T GET IT

Here’s another. What price do you put on credibility? Your word supports this action and if you misuse your word, you automatically lose credibility. These things are are beyond purchase and more important than money, power and fame. Often people have the words but no music. WHY? They lack credibility. In simple earthly parlance…”I don’t get it” thoughts or statements hang thickly in the air

YOU EITHER DO…OR YOU DON’T…OR RATHER NOT SAY

How about trust? This can put brakes on anything if it is in doubt and stop all things dead if a lack of trust is discovered in play. If someone trusts you, a whole set of dynamics go into play different from if they don’t trust you. This is definitely a game-changer and not to be taken lightly either

PLAY-FAIR SHOULDN’T HAVE TO SAID OR TOLD

Fair-play is another powerful dynamic. Even kids will call out NO FAIR when playing the simplest games if someone tries to shortcut or manipulate a simple move or action. It just doesn’t sit well to let it go by without saying something. If happening, people note it and if not, they note that too

I DECLARE….?

How about a promise to perform? Why would you formally declare that something will happen and that you will be the one to make sure it does and then not do it? Yes, there are circumstances out there that will and can interfere with the process, but then you are saying that you can prevail when you promise something. If not, DON’T. Pause when putting this into action. Your whole being is at stake

YOUR FORGIVEN

Forgiveness is another powerful dynamic. We can release someone from their error whether planned as in “deliberate” or perhaps by their ignorance and error and when we do, we are the better for it even if it hurts right down to our bone. Then, there are those who when they receive this, make good use of it too

IF NOT NOW…WHEN?

Inaction is another that we don’t pay much attention to. We were not put here to do nothing but to the contrary, everything that crosses our path summons our input and is an invitation to interact with. We are suppose to make a difference and you can jump in anytime, anywhere and for any reason as you see fit or why are you here? Ask and answer that to your own satisfaction and purpose

FINDING FAVOR WITHOUT EFFORT

Look what we take for granted. If these were for sale, who wouldn’t purchase them knowing how valuable and necessary they are? But, they are not for sale! They are free and given even before the asking. Ponder this and when using these virtues correctly, gratitude for them is duly noted by the one who gives all good gifts

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KEEP IT SIMPLE PLEASE (inner child knows this)

Simplicity. It is as simple as that. Simplicity requires only that it be considered. If called upon, it will perform and meet expectations. If tweaked, it can exceed them. Anyone can do it too. Why then do some people make things more complicated than they are? If complicated, what is taking place becomes more open to interpretation instead of what is really going on. After that, hesitation and confusion follow.

 CAN’T MESS THIS UP

Look what follows. Long explanations. Dear in the headlights and people pausing where they should be charging ahead. Inaction is supported and brakes are applied. Simplicity remains inviting, easy to use and doesn’t discriminate. It is a level playing field if there ever was one. All are welcomed and there is no bad experience…WHY? Its so simple that it is hard to mess up. But some people will try to never the less

I’M SORRY…WHAT IS YOUR POINT?

Every once in a while, I meet people who talk intellectually. This is not a put down. I worked with a bunch of Technology Engineers for two years and what appeared to me to be the long hard road, part gibberish and have no common sense appeared as normal, fun and par for the course to these brainiacs. However, I kept telling them that their target for our product is not other engineers, but the public. We argued all the time. WHY?

ONE PLUS ONE IS…two!      NOT… E=MC2

I speak 6th grade. That doesn’t mean I am a sixth grader NO. It just means that if the average person only made it to sixth grade and that is all the formal knowledge they have in the world of established education, we would get along just fine. WHY? Because simplicity cuts to the chase of everything

OVER-WHELM-ING

Real Estate documents, Filing Income Tax returns, some instruction manuals, small print, disclaimers, warranties, criminal, civil, and business and professions code while all necessary at some point should not dominate or intimidate the players. However, they sure have a foot hold in everything

Me…I just want to keep it simple…that’s all

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TO THINE OWN WHINE BE TRUE?

Whine all the time? Many voice their uneasiness, disappointment, discontentment by complaining. They are not far from the truth because the first step to growth and change is to acknowledge its needed. Its the second step were people falter or never progress toward. Look, wherever you go, there is going to be room for improvement on everything you see, feel and experience.

WHINE THEN…. GO TO WORK

Learning how to navigate through it all as you go using trial, error, and do-over, patience and even closing one eye from time to time will help you more than letting the stress of the imperfection invade your well being or advancement for the better. Watch the will as it is pushed and pulled upon

THIS MAY HELP

Always think problem AND solution and not just problem. Horse & carriage. Love & marriage. Peanut butter & jelly (lol).  Problem & solution. Get it? We have the ability to rise above anything and before that, handle it so that it does not run rampant all over us or others. Use that power to affect a change

THE OLE 3 TO 1 APPROACH

There is a rule called three to one (3 to1) when giving criticism or exploring problems. Cite three good things about what is taking place or that you see is positive and then let the problem out as well. The balance will keep you from becoming addicted to being judgmental plus support hope and change

ON THE SOUND?

On the whining…take that high pitched complaining sound while valid in theory and substitute a harp or violin for accompaniment to the experience. The shrill sound doesn’t do anyone any good. Learn to explore with resolution and you will find yourself stepping to a livelier tune.

List of miscellaneous whiners who can be taken off the list any time

1. My clients. Whine all you want but we must make lemonade at some point please. Work with me here

2. On spouses: Gentle but with courage and hope for the future, get this down to a squeak from a roar

3. On friends…The glass is half full. Haven’t you heard by now? Drink up and lets move on

4. On customer service: Say it without resentment but definitely feedback. Your helping the next guy

5. On life: The dead are all too quiet. Be thankful to be able to voice an opinion. Know that hope makes its all better too…hope for the best. If life is a pain then be glad you can feel something. Make life a pleasure when you are ready to do so

Why whine? It takes up valuable time and time is not something we should spend frivolously

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TELLING AND RECEIVING THE TRUTH

We shouldn’t have to take an oath to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but. It should be your default. Once more, you should be able to receive the truth too. Now if you are a person of humility, wanting to grow and become all you can be, then it is prized to receive all the truth you can stand. If you have trouble with the process of giving and receiving truth, we have some work to do

WHAT IS TRUTH?

The truth is no respecter of persons, places or things. It was here first and all things answer to it. It is the glue that bonds the Universe and gives life and consistency. It carries out the desires of the Universe consistently and lovingly so that all may benefit continuously and without the asking. The truth is everything, always everywhere and before anything was…there was truth. Nothing exists without this. It is the very center of the all there is

IT CAN REDEEM YOU IF YOU LET IT

In the moment, it can sting a wrong person who has a some unfinished business or who strayed a little to the left or right. It may cause someone to resent you, even want to harm you and over react to the point of argument and even payback. But I have it on good authority that if you have acted properly, your actions will hold….WHY? HOW?

YOU CAN COUNT ON IT

You see one day, that truth, if told properly will present itself to that person who will then realize the love that you were trying to share with them at the time… but they couldn’t receive it then. Now, in the current moment, they see it all and that truth goes to work…Best gift you can give anyone short or long term too.

HONESTY..WE ALL WANT IT

We all want and crave the following: HONESTY. We want it and we want to give it but something interferes with this child like process and taints it. But we have the power to have the final word on the subject and to do what is right, fair and true…if we want too.

YOUR ON NOTICE

Remember this: When you align yourself with the truth, when you seek it out and want it and love it for the right reasons, it is instantly received, acknowledged and noted by the truth-maker that monitors all hearts. It also puts all ANTI-truth forces on notice…you have chosen a side. Dark forces will balk, test and harass…..Let them

Now….you will stand in the company of the greats…Hold… and those shadow forces will cower and flee. Left standing will be someone worthy to know now… and in the times to come

Truth be told

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PUT SOME LEGS ON IT (dreams)

Dream all you want. Wish away and the sky is the limit. Hope for the best. However, at some point, the most effective, guaranteed, down to earth, works every time, is when you take it all, whatever ALL is and put forth energy into it, then stand back and behold what will visit with you next. RESULTS! One way or the other, something will happen. Its the action that was needed to cause a reaction. That comes from you

GIVE ME A CHANCE

One thing I have become aware of over the decades is how the American dream works if you work. Let me explain. You see, people all over the world just want an opportunity to work, to make something of themselves. They know that something will become of it. They just need that chance. America is that!

DREAM AND THEN MOVE!

You work it when you see the opportunity to do so. Then, you keep working it, assessing it, having faith and consistency in it and before long, the next best step is revealed. So, what do foreigners do? They come here and want to work. Before they come, they are dreaming of it. Then, they arrive and want to make it work for them and America delivers. Consider this as well….

STEP BY STEP

Whether you were born here or not, you start by getting a job…ANY JOB. You work and you get paid. You either save some money or pool it and the next step is to buy your first home. Then, you are happy, content and motivated to have made it thus far. Your family is growing and everyday affords you the energy and motivation to continue and enjoy. Keep up the good work is what I would say to anyone

YOU SUCCEED AUTOMATICALLY

If you did nothing else for the next twenty years but worked and paid your mortgage off, an incredible event takes place worth mentioning and which is the POINT OF THE POST. You now have a home nearly paid for and are a person of property and that was with little or no effort but what was expected of you

THE MINIMUM CAN BE ANYBODIES

Then, either money saved, or a pension or a retirement account or even Social Security kicks in and you have what most people who don’t have… dream of having. A home, a place to lay your head, some benefits and the satisfaction of a well lived life. There is the minimum of America…the beautiful

GO AS HIGH AS YOU WANT…but warning:

Now anyone can up what I just described to any level they want making America show its promise and potentials in other ways. The name given to America…. The Land of Opportunity is no myth or wasted boast. NO. It is a reality. If you stress, if you use questionable means or if you don’t pace yourself…

WATCH THE GREED AND YOUR WILLFULNESS

Then, you can run into a nightmare of your own doing right quick if you obsess or lose the charity in your own heart while traveling along.. .We can work hard or not, buy a home or not or enjoy the sites and the sounds of a decent life style but not until we play the correct part required by us. In other words…Its not what you have but how you came to have it…Be mindful of this

WHAT MOVES DREAMS AROUND?

That be LEGS…put some legs on all that talk, dreaming and want…and lo and behold…it appears

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YOU CAN BE CONTROLLED BY YOUR INSECURITY AND VANITY

If you don’t get a handle on your own insecurity and vanity, then someone else will and usually it is not to the persons liking either. Its your vulnerable spot, unfinished business that visited with you early on and is now at home in you interfering with your carefree life and existence. It is not supposed to have a front row seat BTW…

THE TRIGGER

Some people trigger other peoples insecurity and vanity without even knowing that they have done so. Its the truth that does it. Someone makes an innocent comment that is or is not appropriate and someone takes issue with it… wanting to know…What did you mean by that? It has begun….

WHY REACT?

I meant nothing. YOU are reading more into it than you should. That is the point of the post. Your insecurity and vanity button has been pushed. What this should tell you is the following: Until you can get a better handle on it all, put this button where people cannot access so well. We now know it exists

GET TO THE ROOT CAUSE

Eventually, you will get to the root of that insecurity. It is a childhood trauma that came and made a home in you. Children are resilient and the survival mechanisms within a human are exceptional. WHY? They enable us after being injured or slighted to pick ourselves up and move on…But here’s the catch LITERALLY….

WATCH OUT FOR THIS: RESENTMENT

If you resent the episode of injustice or unfairness, then it has made a home in you. Yes, you will move on but with that additional weight now being carried within you. Fast forward now. You grow up and you, the adult, discover that some of your joy is missing or compromised. It is so subtle too

LOSE THE WEIGHT!

What to do? You track it down and discover its roots. Then, through remorse, regret, sorrow and just plain forgiveness of self and others (called repentance in the earthly parlance), it is released and YOU go on without it. Its like walking on air once the release takes place. You are lighter for it. No baggage!

ALL IS VANITY

On vanity…pride, emptiness, low esteem and worth, plus arrogance roam the once joyful halls of where the little kid in you used to come and go by also known as happy go lucky. Now, you overreact and compensate to make up for the missing or inadequate parts of your being…This obsessive focus and lack is called vanity. There is more to it, but this will do for now.

WHY IS THIS?

An awareness of why this is taking place again may lead you back to childhood event or it could be that you have chosen this way to reward yourself. Its a form of your will being done. It can even be used for denial purposes but it is high maintenance and doesn’t hold over time. You want to be RID of this

LEARN TO LAUGH IT OFF

First, become aware of these dynamics. Second, get a handle on it. Don’t expect to clean it all up in one sitting. In time, without being willful but instead mindful, it will dissipate if you don’t summon these things and give in to the temptation to use them. After a time, you shall rule and they will become a near nothing…a distant memory or even a good laugh if you allow it

YOUR ARE WORTH THIS

Short term pain will take place as you discover, identify and then begin the journey to cure yourself and be free and then it will be followed by long term pleasure…Well worth any effort. Bon Voyage!

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DO THIS IF YOU CAN (life results)

Leave everyone on a positive note. Here is the premise. You never know what is going on with the other person that is causing them to not be all they could be. Furthermore, you may never see this person again either. Another thought is that someone may need your talent or skill to help them to their next step. What am I driving at here? If you leave all in a fair and acceptable way, then you will NO have regrets now or later

EVERYWHERE YOU GO…THERE THEY ARE

Human life and the living of it is not to be taken for granted. Yet the pressures and man-made problems that visit with us all day long pull us into another direction. We slowly become obsessed with acquiring wealth, going from point A to point B and not wanting to operate outside our comfort zones

HELP GOT YOU STARTED AND KEPT YOU GOING

Think about this statement I am going to make. No one has got to where they are without the help of someone else. You can start with your birth, then go to kindergarten and from there easily see how tens of thousands of people and events have helped shape your life…

LOOK INTO THIS

If you don’t have a heart of joy and giving, so be it until you do. But I ask you not to cause others unnecessary suffering or misfortune by an unkind word or deed if you can help it. I believe you can. Say or do whatever must be said or done, but include some must have dynamics with it:

1. Say what you will but remember what ST. Augustus said. Love first, then do as you will.

2. Use please and thank you even if the other person is not worthy of it. They are but you cannot see or hear it when you are in an emotional state. However they will either in that moment or later on

3. Keep it short. No redundancy. No yelling and finish what you started or don’t start it at all

4. Make sure there is no resentment in your demeanor. If there is, then you are not 100% on this

I HATE HAVING TO DO THIS….but

The other day, I had to hold accountable someone who is under criticism from different sources. I told them the truth and their response was personal followed with..I hurt their feelings. I have no doubt that this took place. However, the reason why we were talking is because their “wrong’ conduct commanded it. You hurt your own feelings and that of others. Think: Or why are we talking then?

START-OVER…THAT’S ALL

You needed to be reigned in and I had the unpleasant job of doing it. I am sorry sez I, but unless you do something about what everyone is complaining about, they will take it to the next step. Its your choice and then I signed off with…please…Please…PLEASE…take this in for your sake

and off I went…may we all come around for the better when it is our turn to do so

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ITS WHAT YOU DO WITH IT PEOPLE REMEMBER

Gifts, talents, skills and abilities abound all over the planet and are easily found. Wherever there is a human being, you will find these in abundance with little exception i.e. they are not being used, used to their fullness or used incorrectly

USE THOSE GIFTS

I always marvel when I see someone doing something so well. It could be singing, sewing, baking, assisting or providing a service or product and to see the way they contribute to what is being offered remains memorable if their skills bank is activated and employed

BEST MAKES IT MEMORABLE

One person giving their “best” or all of what they were given to someone else makes the dinner, the movie or the travel trip extra special and is automatically bookmarked by the receiver as a premium experience. Someones best is good enough and brings out the pleasure factors

LESS THAN BEST IS MEMORABLE TOO

The opposite proves it. If you don’t get the premium, or if you sense it could have gone better, that lack or missing component remains obvious and that is bookmarked by the receiver of the goods or services. Which cause us to consider the following dynamic…

WHY NOT GIVE ALL?

If a person or business is going to do something, then it should be doing it with heart and focus with deliberate purpose being brought to bear. WHY? For starters, why not? Everyone is seeking and wanting a premium experience. Who stands in line or conducts business for less?

THE WILD CARD? PEOPLE

Whenever you hear of something going well or not so well, it is always dependent on the people who were involved at that time. The people or the place providing the service comes under scrutiny. And another dynamic may kick in as well…

THE COMEBACK EXPERIENCE

People may not want to come back and there goes repeat business. If done right, no need to spend large sums of money on marketing and advertising. The public will good mouth you and a path to your door will appear in good time. If done wrong, “going out of business” will follow

GIVE SELF

People giving what they were given to another…whatever they have to give… is how we keep score one way or the other in the business and personal realms

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